You’ve optimized your profile.
You’ve searched for the right people.
You’ve built your network strategically.
Now comes the part that really matters…
Starting the conversation.
Because here’s the truth:
Connections alone don’t build businesses. Conversations do.
Let’s walk through exactly how to message new connections in a way that feels natural, professional, and effective.
First, Let’s Recap
Before we dive in, let’s quickly revisit what you’ve already done:
- Chapter 2: You optimized your profile so it attracts the right people.
- Chapter 3: You learned how to search for and find your ideal connections.
- Chapter 4: You implemented a system to consistently build your network.
Now you have new connections coming in regularly.
So the real question becomes:
What do you do with them?
You message them.
Why Messaging Matters
When someone accepts your connection request, they’ve opened a door.
If you don’t follow up, that door quietly closes.
Messaging new connections is where relationships begin. And relationships are what lead to:
- Partnerships
- Clients
- Referrals
- Growth
But here’s the key: the message must feel natural.
Not pushy.
Not robotic.
Not salesy.
Let’s look at two proven approaches.
Script Option 1: The Relaxed, Conversational Approach
This is a laid-back, friendly message. It works extremely well because it feels authentic and non-threatening.
Here’s an example:
“Hi Shannon, it’s great to be connected. Do you have any time this week or next week to talk about how you and I can link arms and free people from physical and financial pain?”
Simple. Warm. Direct.
Why This Works
- It acknowledges the connection.
- It opens the door for collaboration.
- It focuses on impact, not selling.
- It invites a conversation instead of pushing a pitch.
If the exact wording doesn’t feel like you, that’s okay.
Use it as a foundation. Then personalize it.
The goal isn’t to sound scripted.
The goal is to sound like yourself.
How to Send Messages Efficiently
Here’s a practical workflow:
- Click “Message” on the connection.
- Paste your message template.
- Personalize the name.
- Double-check spelling.
- Send.
- Move to the next person.
It doesn’t have to take long.
You can send multiple messages in just a few minutes.
Speed plus consistency equals momentum.
Script Option 2: The Professional Approach
If you prefer a more polished tone — especially on professional platforms — this version may feel better.
Example:
“Hi Larry, it’s great to be connected to you. I’m specifically looking to connect with others who have a passion for assisting individuals with their personal health and wellness goals. If you feel this is you, would you have some time this week or next to discuss how we can link arms and change lives together?”
This version feels:
- More structured
- More targeted
- More professional
It works especially well on platforms where business tone matters.
Breaking Down the Psychology
Let’s analyze what both scripts have in common:
1. They Start With Appreciation
“It’s great to be connected.”
That’s simple acknowledgment. It feels human.
2. They Clarify Intent
You state what you’re looking for.
You don’t dance around it.
3. They Invite — Not Pressure
“Would you have some time…?”
This is key.
You’re opening a door.
You’re not pushing someone through it.
Which Script Should You Use?
Here’s the honest answer:
Use the one that feels most natural to you.
If you’re relaxed and relationship-driven, use the conversational approach.
If you’re more structured and business-focused, use the professional approach.
Energy transfers through text. If you’re uncomfortable, people feel it.
Authenticity wins long term.
What About Conversion Rates?
When done consistently, messaging new connections produces strong engagement.
Not everyone will respond.
That’s normal.
But many will:
- Say yes to a call
- Ask for more information
- Engage in conversation
The more aligned your network is (thanks to your earlier chapters), the higher your response rate will be.
Quality targeting improves messaging results.
Common Mistakes to Avoid
Let’s make sure you don’t sabotage your results.
❌ Don’t Pitch Immediately
No long product explanations in the first message.
❌ Don’t Copy-Paste Without Personalizing
Always change the name. Always check spelling.
❌ Don’t Overcomplicate
Short, clear messages outperform long essays.
❌ Don’t Sound Desperate
Confidence is attractive. Pressure repels.
The Real Work Starts Here
Building your network was step one.
Messaging them is step two.
But step three is where growth happens:
Consistent follow-up.
Because one message rarely builds a relationship. Ongoing communication does.
This chapter isn’t about blasting messages.
It’s about:
- Building genuine connections
- Creating collaboration opportunities
- Starting meaningful conversations
Final Thoughts
You now have:
- A system for finding the right people
- A strategy for connecting with them
- Two scripts you can use immediately
Now the only thing left is action.
Message your new connections.
Start conversations.
Be consistent.
And remember — every opportunity begins with a simple “Hi.”
💫 You were never given a dream without also being given the power to make it come true.
— Napoleon Russ
